Awkward Silence in Conversations: Three Tricks You Can Use to Make it Disappear!

I was recently asked by a young person with autism "How Do I Continue A Conversation?"

Here are three simple ideas to try any time there is an awkward pause in a conversation.

1. Add details when someone asks you a question. For example, if someone asked you, “Do you have a pet?” Instead of simply answering “Yes” add some details like, yes, I have a dog. He’s a Golden Retriever and his name is Luke.

2. Finish your answer to a question by asking a related question. For example, if someone asked you, “What did you bring for lunch today?” You reply, “ I brought a sandwich, an apple, and chips. What did you bring for lunch today?”

3. Sometimes during conversations, people make statements rather than ask you a direct question. Listen to what others say and then ask questions about their statements. For example, if someone says “It’s my birthday this week.” You can respond by saying, “What day is your birthday?” , “How are you going to celebrate your birthday?”, or “What gifts do you want for your birthday?”

Good luck with practicing these skills! I know you will get better and better at continuing conversations!

Source: Conversation for young people with autism | Launchpad. (2020). Retrieved 14 July 2020, from http://www.autismlaunchpad.org.au/social/communication/

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